Marriage counselling Perth, save your relationship.
Marriage Counselling Perth & Relationship Coaching
Read this first if your partner has walked out. It may just save your marriage .
Normally, the first area couples focus on is marriage counselling, why? Because, traditionally it’s all you know. In my experience I normally see couples after they have been to marriage counselling and it’s actually made matters worse, the statistics speak for themselves.
Working with couples
Working with many couples and individuals over the years, I generally found, the female was the one who made contact, occasionally the male. Fortunately, this trend is now changing.
As males, although well meaning, we try and solve the problems with our ‘Mr Fixit’ ‘I can solve it, we don’t need any help’ attitude, very rarely works. Using the same set of skills and attitude which contributed to the problem in the first place is highly likely to fail before you even start.
Before you contact me, you’ll need to know your ‘why’ – why you’d like to work to save your relationship. Once you have the ‘why’ we can then work on a plan for your ‘How’.
As a qualified educator and coach, we can work together to create your ‘How’.
Would you like to learn more social and relational skills?
Relationship coaching or couples coaching is a relatively new concept that achieves great results.
There isn’t the stigma around coaching as there is with counselling, especially for guys. Men are more likely to work with a relationship coach than a counsellor, going on past experiences. Working with men.
Coaching for many years all over the world, and working for one of America’s top marriage saving websites, my knowledge and experience is extensive.
Issues are similar the world over. Inability to manage conflict, poor communication skills and lack of connection. Infidelity, trust and one of the biggest is not being able or willing to see from another’s perspective. For an urgent, same day 1 hour telephone coaching session click below now.
Relationships are about connectedness.
Relationships are about connection. When you start to distance and disconnect, we focus on how to start reconnecting. Relationships start from ‘you’ and ‘me’, mine, yours, and develop slowly to become a ‘we’ or an ‘us’. Maintaining that takes effort, good relationships dont just happen, they need work.
As time goes on and routine sets in, life takes hold and differences start to surface. For many couples the ‘Fantasy’ (honeymoon period) has long gone and questions start to emerge. Good news! A new chapter is possible.
It may seem that all is lost, but often it’s not always the case. Couples just forget how to relate.
Even when you’ve been living apart for a period of time, the fact remains it is still possible to re-ignite the spark. I have clients who can attest to that.
It only takes one person (a courageous person) to decide it’s time to heal.
Contact me now to find out how.
Areas in which I work
- Confidence building
- Marriage or Relationship problems
- Lack of motivation
- Lack of assertiveness
- Low self-esteem/self Worth
- Managing anxiety
- Rebuilding after divorce